Pilwegender Flag

Pilwegender is a xenogender described as soft, fluffy, relaxing, and comforting. These traits can apply to either the gender itself or the individual whom this gender is applied to.

Similar to many other xenogenders, this gender can be used as a specific gender identity, or it can be used as a modifier for another identity. One may be exclusively pilwegender, or they may be another gender as well.

A pilwegender individual may use any set(s) of pronouns, so it's best to ask.


The term pilwegender was first coined by an anonymous wiki user during September, 2020.


The pilwegender flag was designed by an anonymous wiki user during September, 2020. The shades of blue and the star represent nighttime, which is associated with pillows and calmness. The pastel colors represent softness and comfort. The colors fade into each other to represent the relaxing nature of this gender.


The prefix pilwe- comes from the Middle English word "pilwe," meaning "a soft stuffed bag; a cushion or pillow."

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