Polysexuality is the sexual attraction to various, but not necessarily all, genders. A polysexual person may experience sexual attraction to any number of genders, varying between (at least) two and all but one. Polysexual individuals may have a preference when it comes to which gender they are attracted to, but this is not necessarily the case.[source?]
Etymology
The word polysexual comes from the Greek prefix polus, meaning “many”. Another Greek prefix, polloi, meaning "much" may also have had an influence.[source?]
Community
History
The term "polysexual" first appeared in the late 1920s. Before it gained traction as a recognized sexuality, it was used in the context of polyamory, which is the practice of (being open to) having more than one romantic and/or sexual relationship. As the term became established and widely recognized in the last few decades, that conflation became outdated as polysexuals are now understood to be entirely distinct from practitioners of non-monogamy.[source?]
Flag
The polysexual flag consists of three differently colored stripes. The first being pink, representing attraction to women and the second being green, representing attraction to non-binary (or otherwise gender non-conforming) people. The bottom blue stripe represents attraction to men.[1]
Distinction
Pansexuality
- Main article: Pansexual
Though attracted to several genders, polysexual people do not experience attraction to all genders. Pansexual people, however, do. Another notable difference between the two identities is that pansexuals are attracted to people regardless of their gender, while gender often does play a significant role when it comes to a polysexual person's attraction to someone.[2]
Bisexuality
- Main article: Bisexual
While some consider the terms bisexual and polysexual as one and the same, others feel that having the distinction of the two identities is important. Having the term "polysexual" generally allows people to have a more accurate word to describe what their sexual attraction feels like. This is because bisexuality is often associated with the binary genders male and female, while this is not necessarily the case for polysexuals. However, it's important to recognize that this does not mean that people who identify as bisexual are fixated on traditional notions of gender.[2]
Omnisexuality
- Main article: Omnisexual
Omnisexuality and polysexuality are similar in that they both describe sexual attraction to multiple genders, with gender playing a factor in that attraction. Polysexual people, however, do not necessarily experience attraction to all genders, while omnisexual people do.[3]
Polyamory
As stated before, polysexuality and polyamory are no longer intertwined with one another. It should be noted that a polysexual person could still identify as polyamorous, but the two are not in any way linked to each other.[source?]
Perceptions and Discrimination
People may wrongly accuse polysexual people of "being attracted to everyone" or that they "just can't make up their mind about their sexuality". This is harmful, as it invalidates a polysexual's feelings and experiences.[source?]
There are also the assumptions people make about a person's sexuality based on the relationship they are currently in. If a polysexual man is dating a woman, people might assume he is straight. This is, however, not the case. These are also common assumptions when it comes to bisexuality and/or pansexuality.[source?]
Media
There is limited to no media representation when it comes to polysexuality, likely due to a lack of widespread understanding of its definition.
References
- ↑ Old Dominian University: "Queer 101". Old Dominian University - LGBTQIA+ Initiatives. (Archived on October 25, 2021).
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 "What is the difference between bisexual and terms like pansexual, polysexual, omnisexual, ambisexual, and fluid?". bi.org.
- ↑ "What is the difference between bisexual and terms like pansexual, polysexual, omnisexual, ambisexual, and fluid?". bi.org.