Not to be confused with kinggender.

Original kingender flag.

The kingender flag without the emblem.

An alternate kingender flag.

Simplified alternate flag.

Another alternate kingender flag.

Kingender is a gender identity under the alterhumangender umbrella to describe someone with a gender related to their kintype. A kintype (or otherkin) relates to a non-human identification. One example of this could be someone who identifies as a dragon on a spiritual, mental, or emotional degree.

The kingender experience is different for everyone. Some examples of what kingender individuals may experience are:

  • a change in gender when one experiences a shift (kingenderfluid)
  • the experience of being a certain gender because of one's identity (e.g. a dragonkin knowing they wouldn't be female if they weren't dragonkin)
  • Identifying as a xenogender related to one's kintype

This can be considered genderNH if one is kin to a non-human being or character.

The identity is exclusive to those who identify as otherkin, because the gender of individuals who identify as kingender is intertwined with their non-human identity. If one is not otherkin, they cannot be kingender, as they do not experience a key part of this identity.


Kingender was coined on or before July 25, 2014 by Tumblr user Sadvaporwavebabe and posted to MOGAI-Archive.[1]


The kingender flag was coined by Deviantart user Pastelmemer and was posted by Deviantart user Pride-Flags on September 7th, 2015.[2] It has no confirmed meaning.

The second was coined by a user who has chosen to go by Adora in January 6th, 2021 at the request of FANDOM user Vkgfjlmvfjkvmfkgvfk.[3]

  • Light gold represents mythical beings
  • Yellow represents fictional characters/beings and conceptual beings (such as musickin)
  • Light pink represents prehistoric beings
  • Dark pink represents land-related beings
  • Pale purple represents having multiple kingenders
  • Dark purple represents multi-dwelling beings (ex: a frog that lives in water and on land)
  • Light blue represents aquatic beings
  • Dark blue represents flying or sky-based beings
  • Black represents feeling misplaced or knowing your body does not fit your true identity.
  • Humanoid design represents one's outward body