Graygender, also sometimes spelled as greygender, and sometimes referred to as gray agender or grey agender, is a gender identity that describes a feeling of ambivalence towards one's gender. It can also be defined as an identity in which a person feels a weak connection to gender in general.[1][2][3][4][5]
Etymology[]
The use of "gray-" in graygender is intended to be similar to the use of the prefix for graysexual. Instead of feeling a weak attraction as with graysexual, a person who is graygender would instead feel a weak connection to gender.[1]
Community[]
History[]
The term graygender was first coined by Tumblr user invernom, on March 20th, 2014.[1]
Flag[]
The flag for this identity was designed by Pride-Flags on DeviantArt, on August 23, 2015.[6] The meanings for the graygender flag's colors are as follows:
- Grey: Spectrum of experiences under this identity[6]
- Blue: Graygender as an identity and experience, comparing it to deep ocean waters[6]
- White: Purity and validity of graygender people and their unique experiences[6]
Distinction[]
Agender[]
- Main article: Agender
Agender can sometimes be confused with graygender, but they are distinct in their own ways. Agender is typically defined as having no gender at all. Graygender is about having a weak connection to gender, or otherwise not caring about one's own gender.[4]
Graysexual[]
- Main article: Asexual spectrum#Graysexual
Both graygender and graysexual share the same prefix, but they are two different types of terms. Graysexual is a sexual orientation, in comparison to greygender which is a gender identity. A graysexual person is someone who experiences a very weak sense of sexual attraction, or may only feel it on very rare occasions.[4]
Grayromantic[]
- Main article: Aromantic spectrum#Grayromantic
Similar to the difference between graygender and graysexual, grayromantic is a romantic orientation instead of a gender like graygender. It simply shares the same prefix as graygender and graysexual, and is defined as a weak or rare sense of romantic attraction.[4]
References[]
- ↑ 1.0 1.1 1.2 "Identifying As “Graygender”/“Greygender”" by invernom on invernom.tumblr.com (Archived on January 23, 2022)
- ↑ "68 Terms That Describe Gender Identity and Expression" on healthline.com (Archived on November 22, 2022).
- ↑ "The Gender Identification Flags You Should Know About For Pride Season!" on thelgbtsentinel.com. Published 2019-05-24 by The LGBT Sentinel (Archived on October 25, 2022).
- ↑ 4.0 4.1 4.2 4.3 The ABC's of LGBT+ by Hardell, Ash. Published 2016 by Mango Media Inc.. ISBN 9781633534087
- ↑ "What is Greygender?" [Video] by Ash Hardell on youtube.com. Published 2016-12-17 (Archived on November 23, 2022).
- ↑ 6.0 6.1 6.2 6.3 "Graygender / Gray Agender" by Pride-Flags on deviantart.com. Published 2015-08-23 (Archived on January 27, 2022).