The fraysexual flag.

Fraysexual, also known as ignotasexual, is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum describing when someone only experiences sexual attraction towards those that they are not deeply connected with and lose that attraction as they get to know the person. Fraysexual is often described as being the "opposite" of demisexual.

Fraysexual can be a sexual orientation on its own or can combined with other orientations. For example, one could be fraysexual and gay, meaning that when one does experience sexual attraction it is only towards people of the same gender.

Fraysexual people, after losing their sexual attraction, can still have sensual attraction for a person.

The romantic counterpart to fraysexual is frayromantic.


Blue and cyan are meant to represent strangers or acquaintances. With blue being the complementary color to red and yellow, which symbolize romantic and platonic love. The white stripe represents a lack of attraction. The grey stripe represents confusion about sexual attraction.


The prefix fray- comes from the Old English word for stranger.

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