Hey! My name is Ghost, but any ghost-related names (and names derived from them) are fine. My main pronouns are he/him, but I'm also fine with anything. I'm pangender, queer, and questioning. I'm alright with pretty much any gender terms, whether they're man-aligned, masculine, woman-aligned, feminine, nonbinary-aligned, gender neutral, etc. As long as it's not being used to invalidate me, just about anything works!
Identity
Pronouns & Gender Terms
I primarily use he/him pronouns; these are the pronouns I typically refer to myself with. I'm also fine with any other pronouns, except for emojiself pronouns. For clarity, I have nothing against emojiself pronouns, they just don't feel right in application to me.
I'm okay with any gendered (or non-gendered) terms as long as they're not being used to invalidate me or my identity. Examples:
- masculine/masc-aligned (example: handsome)
- man-aligned (example: guy)
- nonbinary-aligned (example: enby)
- neutral terms (example: person)
- feminine/fem-aligned terms (example: pretty)
- woman-aligned terms (example: girl)
- queer-aligned terms
- sappho-aligned terms (examples: butch, femme, tomboy)
- achilles-aligned terms (examples: bear, rosboy, femboy)
- note: I don't like being referred to as a twink
LGBTQ+ Identity
Main identity:
Sub-identities:
genderfluid- genderqueer
- genderfuck
- nonbinary
- neurogender
- gay
- aroace
- demirose (demiromantic + demisexual)
Alterhumanity
I identify myself as alterhuman for coping purposes, as well as spiritual reasons. I have been dehumanized repeatedly throughout my life, and this is my way of integrating that into my identity in a positive way. I'm also exploring the concepts of reincarnation, animism, and pantheism.
I identify with/as animals that bring me comfort and security. Sometimes I like to mimic animalistic behaviors for fun or comfort. Sometimes I dress myself to look a bit more animalistic, such as by wearing fake ears or tails. I also like to imagine myself as these animals, hybrids of these animals, or anthropomorphic versions of these animals. These are my alterhuman identities:
I also somewhat identify as polykin because I believe the spirit is potentially capable of experiencing any being through reincarnation. I also believe that everything in the Universe is interlinked. I'm still exploring these beliefs, but overall, I don't think that my spirit/soul is limited to any specific species. I guess I would describe myself as "spiritually omnispecies." I just happen to be physically human right now.
I generally wish that I were a polymorph, like Beast Boy from Teen Titans, or Discord from My Little Pony. I don't experience species dysphoria, but I often imagine myself being able to freely alter my form. It's a nice thing to think about.
Hobbies and Interests
Hobbies:
- drawing (usually digitally)
- playing video games (especially these ones):
- Stardew Valley
- The Sims 4
- Among Us
- Plants vs. Zombies
- Insaniquarium
- Terraria
- The Binding of Isaac
Likes:
- Littlest Pet Shop
- My Little Pony
- plushies
- pride flags
- Halloween
- hoodies
- Vocaloid/Utauloid
- Pocky
- boba tea
- cheesecake
- the letter X
- alternative aesthetics
Dislikes:
- turkey meat
- flashy lights
- public speaking
- Thanksgiving
- the smell of coffee
- Cheez Whiz
- gender roles
- art block
Important Posts
I know some people are concerned about the ocean vincian flag, so...
Do terms exist to describe queer gender alignment?
Queer gender alignment
Transphobia in dating preferences
Pride Flag Sandbox
Polyamorous flag concept
Vincian Sandbox
Friends
If you wanna be friends, just ask (or add yourself to the list)!
- Michelle/Zom (Zombietoon85)
- they/them/their/theirs/themself
DNI
Don't interact with me if...
... I have personally asked you not to. I don't like making public DNI lists of people because:
- The people on the list likely won't read it
- The people on the list might become a target for harassment
- I don't want to tell people how to upset or trigger me
I also don't like making DNI lists of traits or beliefs because I don't like generalizing groups of people (aside from bigots or trolls, who don't care about DNI lists and should be reported anyway). If I don't want you to interact with me, I'll either tell you or just ignore you.
If you don't want me to interact with you...
Tell me on my message wall.
I will add it to my DNI filter (I use the Advanced Profanity Filter to replace the usernames of people on my DNI list with "[DNI]" so I always know not to interact). Once I've added your username to my DNI filter, I'll delete your message so your username isn't publicly displayed.